How Do We Become And Remain Desirable?

    We are free to value or disvalue any attitude, any choice, any object. But as a result, we find ourselves confronted with this same freedom that others have to value or disvalue them. I negotiate my value every day. Hence the anxiety of contemporary woman. We are obsessed: “Am I desirable? How desirable? How many people…

Plug Me In – Turn Me On- How To We Keep Our Desires Alive?

      Most of the time, people like to ask the question, “You turn me on, what turns me on,”   I turn myself on when, I turn on my desires, I wake up when … The dimension to sexual desire/dysfunction is not addressed at all in the scientific literature. The sexual response comprises…

Why Does Good Sex Often Fade?

  So, why does good sex so often fade, even for couples who continue to love each other as much as ever? And why does good intimacy not guarantee good sex, contrary to popular belief? Or, the next question would be, can we want what we already have? That’s the million-dollar question, right? And why…

What Is Your Type Of Sexy?

“Smart is The New Sexy” “Strong is The New Sexy” “Skinny is The New Sexy” “Happy is The New Sexy”   Everyone is beautiful in their own way. With 6 billion people on the planet it’s likely that someone, somewhere will be attracted to the things that you are. Yet still, we are completely obsessed…

The Good The Bad The Ugly- The Condition Of Being Human

We Are All Born Beautiful, Whole, & Complete.  We Are Human. So why is it that in our society we seem to have this illusion to always be happy, prove to everyone else we are having the time of our lives on our latest Instagram post, or facebook status -addicted to chasing happiness, chasing this…

Feminine & Masculine Energy, How Opposite Energies Attract Like Magic

  Let’s explore a theory on feminine and masculine energy, and how opposite energies attract. Everyone possesses masculine energy and feminine energy and we fluctuate between both. However, there is one sphere that predominates. This energy is not determined by your sex or sexual orientation. Rather, it is determined by examining what our deep-rooted desires…

Why Strong Women Keep Dating “Meh” Boys.

While writing this post this afternoon I took a break  and went downstairs to my local grocery store to grab some lunch- Hair a hot mess, no make up on, sweats. Perfect. Waiting in line a man proceeded to ‘compliment’ me by saying I looked exactly like Lindsey Lohan.            …

Stressed? Depressed? Have An Orgasm.

  There is one thing standing between my being an anxiety-fueled hot mess and a productive lady boss: an orgasm. While most people see sex (and the hot pursuit of multiple orgasms) as a recreational activity or a weekend luxury, I see it as a daily necessity. It’s my inexpensive and ridiculously fun alternative to popping…

International Womens Day- Together We Stand

  Trump likes the women who work for him “To dress like women,” says a source who worked on Trump’s campaign. “Even if you’re in jeans, you need to look neat and orderly.” We hear that women who worked in Trump’s campaign field offices — folks who spend more time knocking on doors than attending…